Do’s and Don’t’s

I received a few emails over the last few days about my recent post which talked about girls like us being sexualized and fetishized.

So, I wanted to clarify a few things.

Yes, I like wearing sexy dresses.  I love leather and PVC fashions.  I think I look good and I love how they make me feel.

When you are on social media, you open yourself up to comments and messages.  It comes with the territory.  Yes, I could shut off comments and close my messages, but I don’t want to do that, especially when the majority of comments are friendly and supportive.

But there is a difference between between “that is a sexy dress” and “I want to tear that dress off you”.  There’s a difference between “I support the transgender community” and “I love shemales”.

So, I wanted to illustrate a few guidelines as to what I am comfortable with and what makes my skin crawl.

Good!

No!

Love, Hannah

4 thoughts on “Do’s and Don’t’s

  1. Seems like we’re all peas in the same pod comments and suggestions fall right in line with the way I see myself but you express it so much better! Diann

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  2. I concur wholeheartedly, Hannah. I’m a CD from Indiana. I post new photos of my softer, gentler side occasionally on Flickr and most comments are very kind and encouraging. But you are right. On the other side of the coin there are the “collectors and lurkers” who don’t even bother to read our profiles and jump right into our photos. Me, like most of my girl friends, hate the comments about what they want to do to us or have us do. These seedy comments are unwarranted, horrible and make me cringe at the thought. If they read our profiles they would see many of us are in wonderful, flourishing relationships. It shows blatant disregard and no respect. Most of the time they have no content or profile description. Anyway, if they do have photos, it is of their “junk” which they think turns us on. Not the case! I have a very close woman with whom I love dearly in The UK and we watch each other’s back when it comes to these tasteless individuals. And we block them straight away and pass the word through our chain of girls so they can block them as well. My English girl calls these types “Right Tossers”. Google the term if you wish for those of you who would like to know. Sorry for the rant. But sometimes we feel like victims of some sick fetishists. Just my two cents. Thank you for letting me vent. Eric

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