Everything we do is brave. We are brave when we whisper to ourselves "I am transgender" or "I am a crossdresser". We are brave when we shyly walk through the lingerie department of a store. We are brave when we leave the house en femme. We are brave when we come out to someone. We … Continue reading Staying Visible
Month: March 2022
New En Femme Blog!
My new blog for En Femme is live! Change Your Gender, Change Your World Part 3 In the third and final installment of Change Your Gender, Change Your World, Hannah McKnight, our resident expert, describes the butterfly effect and how it can be used to understand the journey in accepting one's identity. Read the third and … Continue reading New En Femme Blog!
Materialistic Girl
The hill I will die on is that crossdressing takes time, money, and patience. Learning to strut in stilettos takes practice. Building a wardrobe isn't free. Mastering your makeup will take time. I get a lot of emails from t-girls and crossdressers who are frustrated that it's taking forever to learn how to blend their … Continue reading Materialistic Girl
Ask Hannah!
What do you think about the practice of indicating your pronouns (she/her/hers) after your name as is being advocated by many in the queer community? I, and I think like you, consider myself to be bi-gender or gender diverse (and a few other inadequate labels) I enjoy and am comfortable with my male persona but … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Coffee with the Girls!
Coffee! Girl talk! Looking cute! Is there a better way to spend a Saturday? No, there isn't. Yesterday was the monthly MN T-Girls event and after two back-to-back private shopping adventures it was time to slow down and catch up over coffee. Considering how stressful the last few years have been, having coffee at Creators … Continue reading Coffee with the Girls!
Ask Hannah!
I am looking for a women's hair salon for my shorter hair that is transgender friendly. I am not sure where you live, so I am afraid I can't recommend a specific salon. I would suggest looking into salons that are near you that you think you would like to visit. Once you've identified a … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Review: En Femme Classic Short Sleeve Skater Dress!
I have a deep and emotional connection to clothes. And yes! That is a little shallow, but let me elaborate. The cute purple bodycon dress hanging in my closet? The one I haven't worn in years? I wore it the first time I went out en femme. The beautiful, floor-length gown that I've only worn … Continue reading Review: En Femme Classic Short Sleeve Skater Dress!
Ask Hannah!
I am a member of the website crossdressers.com. The other day one of the girls posted that her wife was asking her about drag queens vs. crossdressers. I've read in numerous places authors saying that "drag queens are an affront to women" Drag queens are way overboard in everything they do. Hair makeup and dress. No … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
How to Change the World
Recently I asked for some feedback on what I write about on my website. This was very enlightening. The comments were helpful and the emails I received were insightful. Most of you enjoy writings about clothes and makeup (no surprise there!) which coincides with what I like to write about. I heart clothes. Some of … Continue reading How to Change the World
Ask Hannah!
I am a male x dresser and want some x dresser training and some forced feminisation texts only please reply No. I am never, ever, ever going to text anyone. I do not think crossdressing is erotic. I do not think forced feminization is ethical. Everything between people should absolutely be consensual. I do not … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Hannah McKnight 