This ISN'T "political" I write a LOT about staying safe as a t-girl. This can cover a LOT of different things, such as how to safely wear a gaff, what to have in your purse, or how to stay vigilant in public when we are en femme. There are things that threaten us other than … Continue reading Walking Backwards
Author: Hannah
Another Self-Indulgent Photo Shoot
I've heard that a need is a really strong want. And I think there's a lot of truth to that. For example, two weeks ago I realized I needed a photo shoot. But in a less dramatic and in a more realistic perspective, I didn't NEED one. I did WANT one, though. I am seasoning … Continue reading Another Self-Indulgent Photo Shoot
Ask Hannah!
Wife and I been together for 10 years. She has always known I have dressed. Recently I brought up that I would like to take things further and start wearing norm day clothes, a wig and makeup. My wife says she wants to grow with me but is very reserved. How can I talk to … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
I am Older Than I Once Was…
...and younger than I'll be" -Simon and Garfunkel Listen. It's never too late to be who you are or to wear what you dream of. There is often a little (or sometimes a LOT) of regret and feeling that you missed out on opportunities to present how you feel, especially after you have accepted and … Continue reading I am Older Than I Once Was…
Endlessly Daydreaming
When I became aware of this side of myself, it felt like the possibilities were endless. I've wanted to, and have been wearing "girl clothes" for as long as I can remember. At one point shoes were just shoes... until I saw a high heel and something just... clicked. I saw women wearing dresses and … Continue reading Endlessly Daydreaming
Corset Seasoning
The other day I started to season a corset. Seasoning a corset is, in a sense, breaking it in. However, it's not so much as getting your body to adapt to it, but more the other way around. There's a lot of ways you can wear a corset and they can help giving your body … Continue reading Corset Seasoning
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i am a long time closet cross dreser, my wife knows of me cross dressing, she has seen me dressing up and tells me when i can dress up. she has given me a dress that does not fit her or her friend, so she gave it to me thinking it would fit. yes, it … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Missing the Point
I will never claim to speak for the ENTIRE t-girl or crossdressing or non-binary or transgender community. I will never try to either. I think it's insane to think that anyone COULD or that anyone DOES. I do write about a lot of different things. My writings generally fall into a few different categories of … Continue reading Missing the Point
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I am planning a short trip to Las Vegas and I was wondering if you know of any hotels which a lot of t-girls stay? Sounds super fun! But I have no idea. I've only been to Las Vegas once and that was in male mode. I don't know if there is a specific hotel … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Why Having a Crossdressing Husband is the Most Stressful Thing EVER
Okay, fasten your garter belts, this is a loooong one. Look, if I have a, hm, a mission statement when it comes to my website is that I try to be supportive, realistic, and honest. I feel I am fairly self-aware and not oblivious to how who we are impacts our lives and the relationships … Continue reading Why Having a Crossdressing Husband is the Most Stressful Thing EVER