We call ourselves different things as we live our lives. Its not uncommon to identify as a crossdresser only to find that transgender is a better fit. Or bi-gender. Or genderqueer. Or agender. Or... uh, something else. At first these are the names we say to ourselves. We think to ourselves "I am a crossdresser" … Continue reading Painful and Beautiful
The Visible T-Girl
I need a break from (gestures all around) all this. No, not from writing or being on social media. I need a break from the seemingly unending string of anti-trans legislation. There are currently over 80 bills being discussed right now across the country ranging from health care to participation in sports to a business' "right" … Continue reading The Visible T-Girl
The Return of the MN T-Girls Again
Yesterday was the first MN T-Girls meeting since November. We took a pause due to COVID but now that the weather is warmer (for Minnesota in April, anyway) I felt it was safe(r) to resume our monthly adventures This was our second return as we took our first COVID pause last March and returned (for … Continue reading The Return of the MN T-Girls Again
Candy Store Sneak Peek
I recently wrote about The Candy Store, a v sneak peek video
Secrets of MtF Cross-Dressing
My friend Sybil is hosting a crossdressing workshop at Bondesque in Minneapolis on Tuesday, April 20th! Sybil Minnelli is a long time cross-dresser, balancing her kink lifestyle with a vanilla family and work life. She'll teach you her secrets of cross-dressing, how she balances dual lives, and how she switches her presentation between casual, passable, … Continue reading Secrets of MtF Cross-Dressing
New En Femme Blog!
My new blog for En Femme is live! The latest article with blogger, trans-activist and fashionista, Hannah McKnight is now available in our Learning Center! Hannah's blog discusses more in-depth her life as a self-described T-girl. Hannah's newest article is the third part in a series about starting out crossdressing and exploring gender, identity and labels: "Crossdressing 101." In this installment, … Continue reading New En Femme Blog!
They’re Not Real, and They’re Spectacular
Okay, this is my last post about my most recent photo shoot (just in time because I have another one in a few weeks). This was an emotional shoot and I dipped my stiletto into new waters which was nerve-wracking and empowering and humbling all at the same time. I was all over the map when … Continue reading They’re Not Real, and They’re Spectacular
Power and Risk
Yesterday I was part of a... oh, I suppose a focus group might be a good description for it. I am not sure how much I CAN say, but a few weeks? months? ago Glamour Boutique sent out an email about a new television show called "The Candy Store" centering on crossdressers and t-girls and … Continue reading Power and Risk
Life is Like a Shoebox of Stilettos
Walking in stilettos is an act of balance, confidence, and forward momentum. And if that's not a metaphor for life then I don't know what is. I am active online in three different ways. Flickr is for photos, my website is for photos, my writings, activism, reviews, and shameless self-promotion, Twitter is for quick thoughts and … Continue reading Life is Like a Shoebox of Stilettos
Wilted Flowers
Yesterday I posted some thoughts and pictures from my first photo shoot of 2021. Typically the first outfit of a shoot shows excitement and confidence... but as the shoot progresses my energy starts to deplete. Sometimes my energy is strained because of a pose or from a pair of stilettos. Some shoots require a lot … Continue reading Wilted Flowers
