And yes, NOT ALL MEN. When I post my silly little thoughts, regardless of what I am blathering on about, I try to qualify my statements and opinions with, well, qualifiers like "sometimes..." and "for the most part...". I try to avoid generalities and I want to make it clear that I am not writing … Continue reading Let’s Talk About Men
Crossdressing and Compromises
I read every single comment that is posted on this website. Promise. Sometimes a comment will be a little critical of a photo, an opinion, or a post. Sometimes I am very reluctant to admit the comment which contradicts my opinion has, well, a valid point. For example! Smiling in photos. I will always believe … Continue reading Crossdressing and Compromises
A Need…
Someone told me that a need is a really strong want. And I think that is mostly true. But I didn't want this dress. I needed it. We all know the feeling of seeing a dress and thinking that it NEEDS to be in your closet even if you have no idea when you'll wear … Continue reading A Need…
Torn
Some of us want to burn down any wall between BOY and/or GIRL. Some of us want to eliminate the men's department and the women's department in a store. Display the neckties right next to panties next to the football jerseys next to hosiery. Who cares. Let's revolutionize and start over. I mean, what would … Continue reading Torn
Shiny Things
Like a crow, I am drawn to shiny things. I love PVC, vinyl, latex, and leather clothes. They are very much my weakness and when I see a shiny dress it will very likely find it's way into my closet and into my suitcase when I choose outfits for a photo shoot. When I saw … Continue reading Shiny Things
Nuances
Hi! Just a reminder that there is a difference between looking feminine and looking like a female. AND! This is going to sound a lot bitchier than I intend it to. Sorry. Looking feminine, to me, is about dresses, heels, and makeup. BUT! We shouldn't "genderize" clothes, shoes, or cosmetics. A heavy metal drummer dude … Continue reading Nuances
Strike a (Juxta) Pose
I LIKE contrasts. I like seeing two things that seem to be polar opposites of one another together. This combination can be something amazing that one wouldn't have possibly imagined working or an absolute disaster. Sometimes things that seemingly contradict each other just mesh perfectly. For example! A hardcore rapper recording a duet with a … Continue reading Strike a (Juxta) Pose
Showtime, Baby
I have a lot of clothes and I have a lot of pictures of me wearing clothes (and a lot of pictures of me NOT wearing a lot of clothes). Sometimes there's a photo of a dress that I don't necessarily like but I love how the photo turned out and it changes my perspective … Continue reading Showtime, Baby
Halfway to Heaven and Just a Mile out of Hell
I like spring and autumn. They are what I call transitional seasons. Winter in Minnesota arrives with the energy of a relative that you sort of like but you know they tend to quickly wear out their welcome. Winter lingers. Winter is stubborn. You are never quite sure when winter will end... or begin. Autumn … Continue reading Halfway to Heaven and Just a Mile out of Hell
Strawberry Girl
Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay back in July I wrote a post about, essentially, living life to its fullest and acknowledging that we are on borrowed time. And I don't necessarily mean WE as t-girls or crossdressers of member of the LGBTQ+ community. Like, all of us. This borrowed time is not necessarily feeling that a asteroid could plummet … Continue reading Strawberry Girl