I do my best to help girls like us. Sometimes it's being asked about makeup or where to find heels in their size, but I get just as many questions and emails about the more difficult and emotional and serious side of who we are. I try to be gentle and direct and honest. Many of … Continue reading I Hear You
Tag: crossdressing
Ask Hannah!
Hi Hannah, Is it all possible to fight the urge to crossdress? I have never crossdressed fully but I have always had the desire and it seems the urge gets stronger. Is there any way to fight it? I don't think there is such a thing as "crossdressing fully". You're either wearing something (nail polish, … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Putting the T in Trick or Treat
Yesterday was the MN T-Girls' annual (two years in a row makes it annual, right?) Halloween party. It was a smaller party than last year's but it was just as fun. I didn't have much of a costume but it was a fun excuse to wear a really cute dress and a tiara lol. I'll … Continue reading Putting the T in Trick or Treat
Ask Hannah!
hello and i would like to know what is the difference between a cross dress and transgender or cis. i am a closet cross dresser for many years and love to dress up as a female and be happy looking pretty and feeling pretty about myself. Cisgender is when you feel that the gender you … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
What a Good Boy, What a Pretty Girl
I have no idea why we are who we are. No one does. We're all the same but we're all so different. Not because we are trans, but because we are, you know, HUMAN. Anyway, I think many people are quick to over-analyze who we are or attribute trauma or familial history as to why we … Continue reading What a Good Boy, What a Pretty Girl
T-Girl Support in Wisconsin
As important as I think it is to find heels and dresses and lingerie that fit (and I think this is really important), I think that finding support and friendship is just as crucial. A random thought. I know it's shallow to put panties and stilettos as equal to support for girls like us, but … Continue reading T-Girl Support in Wisconsin
Ask Hannah!
I am making a contact sheet of resources for a friend of mine that cross dresses. Is there any resources you would highly recommend? Mental health, books to read, people to watch on YouTube or to follow on social media. He’s not looking for forums or dating sites, and that’s all I really come up … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Silver and Bold
I used to think the only way I would be able to leave my home en femme was if I passed. Knowing I would never pass (not that there is such a thing) I thought if I blended in I would be ready to brave the world. I see blending as a... hm, survival method, … Continue reading Silver and Bold
Identity and Responsibility
I was out for a run the other day and usually a run allows me to lose myself in my thoughts and to let my mind wander. Being outside, getting exercise, is a great way to gain some perspective. It helps me work out problems and occasionally have a brilliant, random idea. On this particular … Continue reading Identity and Responsibility
In the Wee Small Hours of the Morning
Our heart's desires come out after midnight. When my wife and I were learning more about my gender identity, we would have these amazing, vulnerable conversations late at night (and often early into the morning) about how I felt, how she felt, and, well, about clothes and makeup. These talks were often accompanied by a bottle … Continue reading In the Wee Small Hours of the Morning
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