This weekend was the final MN T-Girl event of the year. And! It was the return to how we normally celebrate the holidays since the last two years were impacted by COVID. When I say normal, what I mean is the night was filled with pretty girls, beautiful dresses, and lots of girl talk. We … Continue reading Merry and Bright and Fabulous
Nice.
I THINK this is the third year in a row where my website was named one of the Top 100 Sex Blogs of the year by Molly's Daily Kiss. AND! I have the coveted #69 spot on it. Nice. There are some really good sites on this list that focus on non-binary people so even … Continue reading Nice.
Nine Years and Counting
The MN T-Girls have our final event of 2022 this weekend. I am in the beginning stages of planning events for the upcoming year and it's not always easy. Some monthly events are a given, such as the annual Halloween party in October (obviously) and Pride in June. We have an annual photo shoot and … Continue reading Nine Years and Counting
Someone Like You
We are all unique. And yes! That is a cliché. But! That doesn't mean it's not true. Every gender non-conforming person is different. I am transgender, you probably are as well. But while I have no desire to transition, you might be legally changing your name today. The scope of who we are and what … Continue reading Someone Like You
Let’s Talk About Pants
Or! If you live across the pond, let's talk about trousers. I am forever a dress and skirt girl. I do wear leggings in boy mode and I've modeled, ah, non-pants for En Femme. Wait, I did wear leggings (pink, obviously) in girl mode for a yoga class the MN T-Girls did earlier this year … Continue reading Let’s Talk About Pants
Rebel, Sweetheart
Goodness this website has had some heavy topics lately, hasn't it? When I started my first website alllll those years ago I wanted to celebrate this side of us. I wanted to talk about how amazing and fun crossdressing and presenting en femme is. I love reading about the lives and journeys of other t-girls. … Continue reading Rebel, Sweetheart
The Click
Hi! I need your help! I get a lot of emails from girls like me, from people like you, from crossdressers AND from partners, spouses, and significant others about relationships with a non-cis gender person. Most of these emails are about two people trying to understand or trying to explain this side of us to … Continue reading The Click
The Pink Rule
Hi girls! Thanksgiving week is always weird. For most of us it's a short work week. Additionally most of us are also likely traveling or preparing a meal or dreading seeing certain family members. Whatever you are doing, or whatever you had to do, I hope it went by as well as it could! In … Continue reading The Pink Rule
Bye Bye Birdie
I am fascinated by sinking ships. Not real, literal, actual sinking ships, but the period of time watching... something fall apart. Something slowing sinking below the waves, never to be the same again. The end days of something. I've had jobs where the office was going to be relocated halfway across the country and the … Continue reading Bye Bye Birdie
You Can’t Always Get What You Want
I get messages through my website and from time to time I see that the provided address to receive a reply is very likely fake. But I usually respond and in almost every instance my instinct was correct and the email is bounced back. It's possible the address had a typo in it but my … Continue reading You Can’t Always Get What You Want