I consider myself to be transgender. I have no intention of pursuing any surgical procedures. Would I be considered a fraud in the LGBTQ community because I haven’t had surgery? I would absolutely consider you transgender. It's true that some people in as well as out of the LGBTQ+ community may think otherwise. Being who … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Thank You
Feedspot recently listed a lot of lists for top blogs for the year. The lists are for different categories and I am thrilled that I am on several of them: Number 49 on the Top 100 Transgender Blogs in 2021 Number 29 on the Top 50 Trans Woman Blogs in 2021 Number 30 on the … Continue reading Thank You
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I’m a straight cis woman who has always loved crossdressed men. I don’t ‘really’ know why but I do know I like beautiful things and I am quite alternative. I am also fascinated by psychology and people.I actually have lots of questions to ask you but one of the things I’ve always wondered when reading … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
The Lying, the What-Ifs, and the Wardrobe
I remember the first pair of panties I had. When I wasn't wearing them I kept them hidden in a drawer. I was fifteen. I was terrified someone would find them. Paranoia is often crippling but it can save our lives. It holds us back from stepping out en femme. What if someone sees us? … Continue reading The Lying, the What-Ifs, and the Wardrobe
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I would appreciate a “reading list” of books, articles, journals and blogs that you think may be helpful in my learning more about the gender continuum. As an academic I am very disturbed by several things that I have read about: violence against non-conforming individuals who have rejected the binary ideas about gender ( Most … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
An Apology
There have been so many moments where I have felt... what I do is trivial. Perhaps almost inappropriate. As world events unfold and I see history happening, writing about what I write about feels a little tone-deaf. Like, why am I writing about lingerie when (insert current event) is happening? It's impossible to not feel something … Continue reading An Apology
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-What sort of bra do you recommend and how do you know what size to buy? -Do you have actual breasts or do you use/wear forms? Just starting to explore and very confused about forms. What is the correct or proper shape to look for, teardrop, oval, triangle, round ? I have yet to find … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
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The label maze can be daunting as we sort through our unique gender identity and try not to offend anyone by not using the right label or pronoun. Lately I have been referring to myself as a gender fluid crossdressing trans person. In general I also consider myself as part of the LGBTQ or LGBTQ+ … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Jecca Blac Makeup Review!
Of course makeup isn't "practical" in the traditional sense. I don't wear makeup because it benefits my health. If anything it can work against healthy skin. Mascara dries out and makes your eyelashes brittle. Foundation can cause you to break out. Ever get liquid eyeliner in your eye? BUT! Makeup needs to be practical. It needs to WORK. I … Continue reading Jecca Blac Makeup Review!
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I am wondering if you knew if a pre-op woman can legally use the restroom/locker room of her choice in Minnesota? I have been using the women's locker rooms and restrooms for years, however I want to know if what I am doing is legal in the state of Minnesota. Rules and laws change over … Continue reading Ask Hannah!