Two Worlds

I used to think I was two different people.

I know that sounds like the introduction to a book about someone who experiences multiple personalities, but it’s nothing as serious.

I have two very different wardrobes, two groups of friends, and so on.  I see and experience the world through two different perspectives.  I interacted and viewed life differently depending on my gender presentation.  It was easy to think I was two people, so to speak.

But over time I realized that I was one person but I viewed and interacted with the world differently depending on my gender presentation at the moment.  The perspective changed when I changed from sneakers to stilettos. The perspective changes changes because it needs to.

It’s a form of survival, in a way.

When I walk through the mall in boy mode, I never ever think about how someone will view me or what I will do if  see someone I know.  But en femme my heavily eyeshadowed eyes are always looking around.  Is there someone near me that is looking at me in an unfriendly way?  Is that a coworker across the hallway?  Although these two examples are very different from each other, they both are related for survival.  Of course I don’t want to be hurt, and I also do not want to be outed.

It happens less as time passes, but for years I would approach ever interaction, whether with a cashier or someone I passed by in a museum, thinking about how this person was going to respond to seeing or helping a t-girl.  99% of the time it was about as eventful as watching nail polish dry, thankfully.

I am not two people.  Despite two gender identities, two names, and two worlds, I am one.  Our experiences are influenced by what we project.  We will likely have a better day if we are cheerful and friendly to everyone we meet.  A bad day will not get better if we are rude or crabby with the world.  We respond to the world, and the world responds to us.  This shapes our perspective, our experiences.

Our lives.

Love, Hannah

TGIF (Thank God It’s Filtered)

Thank God for filters.

This was one of the those moments where a word that has multiple meanings can be used in several, relevant ways in the same situation.

As I get older, I find that I am often intentionally holding myself back from an immediate reaction.  An email can inspire a very strong feeling and reaction but I am thankful when I pause, calm down, and give myself a little time before I respond.  I let the comment, email, or message filter through my brain and heart for a bit before I reply.  This is a good thing.  Being a t-girl on social media opens me up to a lot of comments and criticism (and dick pics) so it’s important that I count to ten (or one hundred) before I respond, if I choose to at all.

I am also thankful my website will filter comments for approval before they are posted.  The spam filter is pretty good, but unfortunately a safe comment may be flagged and it may be a few days (or weeks, sorry) before I see that it needs to be approved.  There are comments from really mean people that will never see the light of day and I am grateful for that.

Finally, thank God for photo filters.  Not going to lie, sometimes a photo looks better with a little editing.  Usually it’s just a little lightening, though.  I used to feel conflicted when a photo was edited because I felt I wasn’t being honest, if you will.  But over time I have gotten more comfortable with them.  I mean, if a little retouching makes me feel beautiful, what’s the harm?

For example, the two pictures below are from the same day and of the same dress.



Beyond the shot and the pose, the difference between the two is that the first one was taken with an iPhone by a friend, the second was with a really fancy camera by a professional photographer.  The person taking the picture makes a difference, and the camera used has an impact on the quality of the photo.

But in addition to that, the second one was retouched, but by how much I am not sure.  As far as I know, Shannonlee pushed the button on her camera or computer that was labeled “MAGIC” and here we are.  I have seen her photos before and after her retouching and yes, there is a difference between the two.  But… that’s what I want.  Why else would I work with a professional photographer?

But I recognize that some may not like the filtering and may feel that it is… dishonest to post a retouched photo.  And that’s okay.  Many of us know the crushing feeling of looking in a mirror and not looking as cute as we’d hoped, and a little retouching can stave off dysphoria.

I received a comment yesterday in response to one of the girls featured in T-Girl Spotlight.  I featured two girls over the last few days and this drove traffic to some of the other girls I’ve written about.  Without getting into the specifics, the comment made me think about filtering and all the ways the word can be used.

First of all, I was grateful for the comment being filtered into a ‘pending approval folder’ so it didn’t post before I had a chance to approve it.  I approve almost every single comment, but I didn’t approve this one.  I can handle criticism, but this comment said some pretty hurtful things about the girl I was highlighting.  I look at the girls I feature as my guests in a way, and I do not want anyone to hurt my guests’ feelings.

Secondly, I was thankful for being able to control my first reaction, which was to approve the comment and… well, pick a fight, I suppose.   I am glad it didn’t escalate.  Instead of reacting, I went for a run and let my thoughts filter and process in my brain.  This helped me calm down and gave me a new perspective.

Finally, if someone uses a filter, who cares?  Who cares if a photo is retouched?  I know I tweak my photos, so it wouldn’t surprise me if someone else did.  I would be a hypocrite if I judged someone for doing something I do.

I don’t know why this person wrote a comment like this.  Perhaps the were having a bad day.  They may have had some valid points but there’s no excuse for the rudeness towards the featured girl.

Love, Hannah

T-Girl Spotlight: Isabelle

Isabelle is another absolutely gorgeous t-girl that I met on Twitter.

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Her makeup, her style, her wardrobe all caught my eye.  She has the cutest dresses I have ever seen and I would love to know where she shops.  Isabelle is from the UK and you can keep up with her on social media.




I am excited and honored to feature Isabelle in T-Girl Spotlight.

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My female name is Isabelle, I live in UK. I crossdress since I remember, however, in the past few years I find myself much more “professional”.

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My two biggest female passions are modeling and going out as woman. I always get a thrill of excitement when my heels click on some quiet street.

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 Crossdressing is my passion and nothing compares to it. It gave me some ups and downs, but I’m glad I can be myself.

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Ask Hannah!

I am in the process of opening up an online store for crossdressers. What products would you recommend me to sell?  What do crossdressers need the most?

Congratulations on taking this step!  If there’s one thing I love, it’s more options when it comes to shopping.

Years ago the idea of a store specializing in clothes for girls like us was inconceivable but I am amazed at how many options are available these days.  Even though there’s quite a few options, each one is different from each other and can all happily coexist.

Every t-girl/crossdresser is different and we all need and want different things.  Thankfully there are quite a few options out there.  When it comes to retailers that design for and market to our community, I shop online with En Femme, Xdress, Homme Mystere, Glamour Boutique, and the Breast Form Store the most.

I like Xdress and Homme Mystere for their beautiful, feminine lingerie. I like the Breast Form Store for their practical stuff, like forms, pads, and gaffsI like Glamour Boutique if I want something on the sexy side, and En Femme is a wonderful place for day to day clothes.

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What you want to be known for?  What are you most passionate about?  There are a lot of options out there, but I always love finding a new place to buy heels and lingerie 🙂

I am not sure if this helps but I did write a little about what I think are “must-haves” for a girl like us.  Of course, we all have different perspectives on what we think are essentials.

What do you girls think are essentials?  What should a new store sell?  Please comment below!

Love, Hannah

Have a question for me?  Oh yes you do.  Ask me here!


T-Girl Spotlight: Claire Jones

The first time I saw Claire on Twitter I was absolutely blown away.  She is radiant, her makeup is flawless, and I would love to spend a day with her wardrobe.  Claire is also as nice as can be.


I am excited and honored to feature Claire in T-Girl Spotlight.

Love, Hannah

If you’ve seen or spoken to me on Twitter (@claire_CJ_jones), hello again!  If you haven’t, please let me introduce myself.  My name’s Claire and I’m a very occasional transvestite who lives in Derbyshire, UK and who’s watching her half-century on this lovely planet quickly receding into the distance.  It can’t be 2020 already! The wonderful Hannah has kindly given me the opportunity to tell you a little more about myself, so grab yourself a drink, pull up a chair and let’s begin.

My early story is by no means uncommon by all accounts, and perhaps is a familiar theme to many readers.  My first memory of dressing was when I found a pair of my mum’s tights in my sock drawer, which had presumably been put there by mistake.  I must have been around 10 or 11, and although I’d had n conscious interest in what my mum or sister wore before, I felt a really strong urge to try them on.  I couldn’t because I had to get ready for school, but all through the day I just could not get the thought of wearing those tights out of my head.  I rushed home and later, while safely locked in the bathroom running my bath, I managed to pull them on.  The feeling was amazing & I guess you could say I was hooked from that day on, sneaking any chance I could to look ‘pretty’.

My urges grew through my teens culminating in wanting to dress fully as a woman, but all I could do was sneak a quick fix by stealing my sister’s or mum’s clothes while everyone was out.  Very frustrating.  It made me feel very guilty and unsure of my own sexuality as my dressing very much had a sexual element to it at that time too.  To put it bluntly, dressing turned me on and most of my teenage dressing experiences involved some sort of sexual tension and release, followed by the immediate urge to remove everything as quickly as possible and subsequent feelings of guilt and shame.  Was I gay?  Did I want to be a woman?  Nothing made sense, and as this was pre-internet, there was no way of finding anything out.  I was convinced I was the only one that did this, and anything I saw in the media or heard from anyone was negative, making me feel even more confused and ashamed.

In my early twenties, I’d been to University and the urge to dress tailed off as real life and marriage took more of a front seat.  My guilt at dressing never abated either, culminating in me eventually throwing the few things away that I had, convinced that it was all just a phase and that I was over it all.

I was right, up to a point.  Although I never dressed again until my early forties, the thought of it didn’t actually completely go away.  If I saw an article or something on the TV (Hah!) about crossdressing I just had to read or watch it, and the fear that there was something wrong with me was always there.

Then the internet arrived.  Finding out that, not only were there others like me out there, but that there were many others like me was an epiphany.  I really wasn’t alone.  The internet is held responsible for many things, but I know for certain it was key in Claire finally being born.  Knowing that I wasn’t just a freak meant that distant itch at the back of my mind slowly became more insistent, increasingly feeling that it was going to drive me crazy if I didn’t dress again.  So I did.

I’d registered on a few TV sites, mainly to ogle the other girls, but now I started to properly engage and started talking to a wonderful girl called Sarah.  We seemed to get on, and we shared similar interests so eventually I plucked up the courage to go visit her.  I had to borrow some clothes, but to dress completely for the very first time with clothes, wig, makeup and shoes was wonderful.  It felt like a huge weight had lifted from my shoulders, and the genie was well and truly out of the bottle!

I’ll always be incredibly grateful to Sarah for everything she’s done for me.

That was in late 2011, and since that time things have changed considerably.  Due to home and work circumstances I only get to dress four or five times every year, but when I do I try to make the most of it.  I always need to go ‘the whole hog’ when dressing, so it’s always 100% Claire or nothing, with wig, make-up, clothes and shoes, and my collection has slowly grown over time, though of course, it’s never enough!  I lost weight, I lost my body hair, and I lost most of my guilt.  Since Claire was born, dressing is no longer a sexual thing.  I try to do my best to present as feminine an image as possible as that is important to me, but most of all, my overriding feeling when dressed is of being at peace.  I relax.  I become more confident, and I feel much more…’me’.  I know I will never transition and have never had any desire to do so, but being able to allow the Claire side of me out to the world is a great comfort and I honestly believe, makes me a more rounded and better person.  I wish I could dress more often, but the opportunities I do get are enough to keep the need-to-dress madness at bay.


As already stated, my big passion is latex, so I’m usually to be found wearing the shiny stuff, though I have been known to wear more ‘sensible’ outfits on occasion!  There are probably some more normal photos on these very pages in fact.

Although I don’t dress very often, I do manage to get myself out in the world, from my very first outing to a Trans club, and on to eating out with friends at restaurants, to fetish clubs and other events, including visiting Sparkle- an annual event celebrating gender diversity- in Manchester for the past three years.  Saying that, my first visit there I didn’t see any of the Sparkle event as I spent the entire time at a rock club somewhere in Manchester!  Myself and my friend were the only two trans girls there, which was initially scary, but also very refreshing and exciting.  We had a great time, and the people were really friendly, despite it being obvious that we were transvestites.

One thing I haven’t mentioned is how tall I am, and how this affects things this could fill a whole section by itself.  In my smallest heels, I stand over seven feet tall.  Yes, that isn’t a typo.  While being that height can have certain advantages- mainly involving high shelves and concerts, and I also give good leg- it can also be a big disadvantage.  I guess the most obvious one is being able to get clothes to fit.  It’s almost impossible.  Even loner-length clothes from places such as Long Tall Sally are still way too short, and it frustrates me when things don’t look just…right.  It’s the same story with underwear and hosiery.  I guess that’s another plus for latex- I can get latex clothes made to measure!  Shoes also are a pain.  Not so much that I can’t get any, because there are several companies on the internet now that supply canoes with attached heels, but more because there is such a limited choice on the larger sizes.  I see so many pretty shoes that I’d love but know they don’t make them in my size.

The less immediately obvious issue with my height is how it affects me emotionally and socially, in both positive and negative ways.  Even in drab I get stared at, so there’s absolutely no way of going under the radar when dressed.  No matter how feminine, no matter how I move, how I speak, how I dress, there is no way I am ever going to pass, which I know many see as the Holy Grail of dressing and which is something I know I’m never going to achieve.  As Claire I get stared at constantly when out anywhere, but I’ve turned what could be something potentially very emotionally damaging into a positive.  Because I know I can’t go under the radar, I don’t even try.  I stand tall, I act confident, I look people in the eye and I smile at them.  Ninety-nine percent of the time they smile back.  Ironically, I think my height has made me into a more confident person when out in the world.  People will come up to me and talk to me, mainly out of curiosity, and I feel a responsibility to acquit myself well and give a good impression of myself and the trans community at large.  To that end it’s also helped make me more tolerant and understanding towards people’s lack of understanding or their prejudices.

Looking towards the future I’m well into my fifties now, and although the wrinkles are springing up in their droves and everything is starting to sag, I fully intend to carry on dressing for as long as I can.  Claire is a full part of my life now, I’ve made peace with that part of my psyche and although I try not to look back and regret things, I do wish the internet had been around when I was much younger.  Although I wish I could dress more, I wish I wasn’t as tall and I wish I could be more open about who I am, I know I’m actually incredibly lucky.  The grass always seems greener on the other side, but the reality is I’ve met so many lovely people- some of whom were my trans heroes during my early forays onto the internet- and I’ve experienced things I could never have dreamed I would do.  Overall, I can’t be anything but happy with what I have so I’m going to carry on enjoying what I can for as long as I can.  Onwards and upwards!


I haven’t mentioned anything about my, erm, kinks, on here as I’m not sure this is the place to do so.  If anyone wants to know more, please do say so!

A huge thank you goes out to Hannah for getting in touch and asking me to do this and giving me this incredible and humbling opportunity.  A final thank you goes to everyone who read this.  Whether or not you found any of it of interest or of use I don’t know, but if you did, please let me know.

Love to you all


And yes, it is cold up here!

I’m a Barbie Girl, in a Barbie World

My friend Marci is not only drop-dead gorgeous but she also is an extremely talented artist.  Not too long ago she created a wonderful image of us looking fierce and beautiful in the forest, and I am so excited to share her newest piece with you.
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In September 2019, the world was introduced to a new line of Gender-Neutral fashion dolls. Now we’ve gone one further with the introduction of Hannah, Barbie’s new BFF GFF (gender-fluid friend)!
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Hannah, a gender-fluid icon and activist, embodies the trans* dream of “I can be…”, with her sense of fun, fashion, style and presence. We’ve launched Hannah in a gender-fluid starter pack, including her own line of lipstick, 6″ heels (of course!) and her patented “Pink Fog” spray mist.

And as with any t-girl, Hannah has a HUGE range of outfits and looks for you to choose from and collect. This includes a fabulous array of gorgeous frocks and dresses, wigs in multiple colors and styles, all the heels a t-girl could wish for, the most amazing line of makeup on the planet, lipstick colors to die for, and special t-girl lingerie and undergarments to give any gender-fluid girl curves in all the right places!

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When you gotta strut your stuff, you can’t go past a pair of Hannah’s Heels. Available only in 6″ heel options (to paraphrase Henrietta Ford, they are available in any heel height, so long as it’s 6″!), Hannah’s Heels feature her exclusive Hot Pink™ soles (so you can let the world know you’re proudly wearing Hannah’s Heels!), and are available in a range of fashion styles. 

Designed for comfort and all-day wearing, Hannah’s Heels feature a specially engineered natural cushion sole combined with a unique padding system to help minimise pinching and blistering (though we all still have to suffer a little for our beauty!). 

Hannah’s Heels are available in a range of sizes, including extra-width options, so you can be sure of a comfortable, yet snug fit.

And to ensure the best possible and most comfortable fit, Hannah’s Heels has developed a unique sizing algorithm tailored for all sizes and shapes of foot. 

When you order your Hannah’s Heels, we’ll ask you for a range of measurements; follow these instructions precisely, and we guarantee you’ll slip into your new Hannah’s Heels as if they were made just for you. Because they are!

Hannah’s Lipstick

When you put on your lipstick, you can finally present your true face to the world. And with Hannah’s Lipstick, oh my, what a face! Uniquely developed for every t-girl’s lips, Hannah’s Lipstick incorporates special formulations to give you that perfect blend of color, cover, shine and shape.

Hannah’s Lipstick lasts ALL day, so you’ll never need to re-apply (but if you want to, why ever should we discourage you!) throughout a full day of shopping, talking, shopping, walking, chatting and more shopping. 

Our “bleed-free” formulation, combined with our “Smart-Lippy™” “Virtual Lipliner™” snap-to properties, ensure an even and perfectly symmetrical coating of Hannah’s Lipstick, first time, every time. You never-ever have to worry again about the painstaking (and often painfully frustrating!) application of lip liner.

Then, when it’s time to say farewell to your t-girl alter-ego for the day, and revert to guy-mode, Hannah’s patented Goneaway Girl™ makeup remover ensures everything wipes off quickly and easily. There’s no tell-tale lipstick lines, foundation smudges or errant mascara clumps when you need to rush into that emergency 5 pm meeting that the boss just called on what you thought was your day off.

Hannah’s Pink Fog
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Hannah’s Pink Fog gender euphoria spray helps you get quickly into that state of t-girl bliss, when you just know your makeup is perfect, your outfit is fabulous, your look is amazing, and the whole world is in complete awe of you. 

Our unique formulation of endorphins, pheromones and hormone micro-doses changes the way you see the world, and your perception of how the world sees you! 

Hannah’s Pink Fog instantly banishes any feelings of inadequacy, guilt, self-doubt, and that whole “what-on-earth-am-I-doing-and-who-am-I-kidding” mindset that every t-girl can feel from time to time. 

Simply spray a short burst of Hannah’s Pink Fog into the air above and in front of you, and walk into that calming miasma of self-acceptance, joy and self-confidence that is true gender euphoria.

SAFETY NOTICE: It is extremely important that you use Hannah’s Pink Fog strictly as directed. Excessive application of Hannah’s Pink Fog can have unforeseen consequences. Please use with caution.

Love, Hannah

Oh, Twitter

When I first searched for ‘crossdressers’ online all those years ago, I was dismayed and a little shocked at how prevalent crossdressing was associated with fetishism.  There didn’t seem to be a lot of connection to wanting to feel and look beautiful, just a lot of people dressing up for, well, sexual reasons.

Of course, I didn’t feel like my wearing lingerie was anything sexual.  Yes, I felt beautiful in a sexy bra and panty set, but I didn’t dress because it aroused me.

Over time I learned more about myself and started to meet other girls like me, girls who wanted to feel beautiful and they helped remind me that perhaps those who fetishize this are perhaps not as representative of us as I initially thought.

And then came Twitter.

I get likes, comments, and followers from a lot of wonderful and beautiful girls.  Some of my followers are “chasers” (men who like girls like me because they fetishize or are attracted to a girl like me), and, well, that’s fine.  As long as someone is polite (or at least leaves me alone) I don’t mind who follows or comments.

But I also have a lot of, well, sissies.  People who identify as a sissy tend to get aroused by being humiliated for wanting to or dressing like a girl.  Ultra femme and revealing clothing is pretty typical and seems to be a huge part of this fantasy or kink.

Don’t get me wrong, wearing a super femme outfit is fun, and I have a couple of dresses like this, but I don’t feel aroused or embarrassed.

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I will never criticize someone’s sexual fantasy or kink (as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone and is 100% consensual).  But when I see someone online who dresses because they seem to think that dressing as a girl is humiliating which in turn arouses them, it makes me reflect that in no way do I feel that presenting as female is demeaning.  At all.

Perhaps Iggy Pop said it best.


Of course, I could be totally wrong about this fantasy, so if I am, please let me know in the comments.

Love, Hannah

Setting Things Straight

I keep my Twitter Direct Messages open because I love getting notes from guys where the only thing they have to say is “hi”.

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This is sarcasm.

But seriously, I do enjoy getting messages from other t-girls and making new friends.  Most messages from boys consist of pictures of their stupid penis or “WYD”.  Please stop doing these things.

Over the last week I have gotten several messages where the guy says something along the lines of “OMG ur so hot and I am straight but ur beautiful”.

So, let’s talk about this.

First of all, I am not interested in guys, even if I wasn’t married.

Secondly, Hannah is a GIRL.  If you think I am cute or whatever then you think a GIRL is cute.

If you are a boy and you think a girl is cute that is about as straight as it gets.

Telling a t-girl (t-girls are girls!) that you think she is cute despite the fact you are straight tells me that you look at t-girls as boys dressed up as a girl.  Perhaps you are not consciously doing that, but please remember that being attracted to a t-girl is being attracted to a girl.

And really, get over yourself.  Sexuality, like gender, can be fluid and complex.

I didn’t spend $70 on a makeover and dedicated years learning how to strut in stilettos for some dude to think of me as a boy.


Love, Hannah